Usually it is during the most difficult, low and painful
phases of our life, we discover how fragile life is. We suddenly realize how
good a life we had and how happy we were. Strangely enough the sweetness is realized
during the bitter moments of life. We wish things would go back to how they were. That we could go back to experiencing those
sweet moments again. We often wonder, “How did I manage to land myself in this
situation? “ The guilt trip begins!
Over analyzing makes us more miserable, because it makes us look
outwards for solutions. We start thinking how can we control and/or influence someone
else’s actions, decisions, behavior etc. This doesn't help since we have
absolutely no control over others. When we try to control something which is
beyond our control, we are frustrated and helpless.
It is not often that we find ourselves facing issues or
fighting a battle, but yes when we are fighting the battle we see
issues/problems piling up and situation seems to worsen. Things seem hopeless
and future bleak and dark. But have you realized that although the future seems
bleak and dark, we always get out of it and find a bright future waiting, and
we are beaming about the fact that this is so much better than what we wanted.
Guess the beauty of life is in its surprises and paradox. It
brings forth problems so we better ourselves, become stronger by finding the
way out and fighting the battle. And the minute we find the solution and see
the simplicity of the things that we made so complex by our thinking and over
analyzing, life smiles back.
The important thing to remember during any difficulty; Do
not over analyse! Humans love to add logic
and reason to everything. Sometimes the trick is to just accept and go with the
flow.
